My fifth baby has been the easiest to breastfeed. I am not sure why this is but I have many theories. None of which I can prove conclusively and that is what makes it tough to advise other parents. Very little about parenting has been proven. In fact the whole science is a work in progress.
That is why if it works for you and your baby it is good. Of course sharing your ideas with other parents can be very helpful but if they don't adopt your methods don't be offended.